Whilst the chapter contains lots of serious argument from Scripture, it also offers help in working out what submission looks like in practice. It's not enough to just say "I submit to my husband" - I have to be careful that my commitment to Scripture doesn't end with what I say in a Bible study group, but continues once I get home. I appreciated Carolyn's description of a "submission moment" in her own life, and her thoughts on "excuses and exceptions" and "applying godly pressure".
And here's a really perceptive section to ponder for a while...
The form and context of the word desire [in Gen 3:16] actually has a negative connotation - an urge to manipulate, control, or have mastery over. Because of the curse, we now have a sinful tendency to want our own way and to resist our husband's authority. This evil desire poses the greatest opposition to our submission.
So we see that the submissive wife - far from being the weak-willed woman our culture portrays - is actually a model of inner strength. By God's grace, she has conquered this opposition within her own heart. It is actually weakness on display when a wife is not submissive; she is only caving in to her natural inclination to usurp authority and demand her own way. That doesn't take any effort at all.
Further reading and listening
If you've got questions about submission which have come from this chapter, then here are some resources you might find helpful:
* Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood, by John Piper and Wayne Grudem. You can read this book free online. A few particularly relevant chapters are:
- John Piper's introductory chapter on a Vision of Biblical Complementarity
- Ray Ortlund's chapter on Gen 1-3
- George Knight's chapter on Eph 5:21-33 and Col 3:18-19
- Wayne Grudem's chapter on 1 Peter 3:1-7
* Equal but Different, is a Sydney based group of Anglican women. They publish a magazine 3 times a year and have a website which contains lots of good links and articles.
* Council on Biblical Manhood and Womanhood is a website that has a huge number of resources on this topic.
* Different by Design - a collection of six talks by Claire Smith looking at the meaning of specific Bible texts about women.
1 comment:
I pastor a church in Commerce, GA, and I googled "the beauty of submission" and found your blog. First, thank you very much for commending such an important virtue. Secondly, I'm preaching from I Peter 3:1-6 on Sunday a message I've entitled, "Superior Beauty in the Joy of Submission." If you've come across any illustrations or stories on "the beauty of submission," would you please post your story here and I'll check back later to read it if you've come up with anything?
Thanks
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